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2020.11.25 02:18 Harriso24 Help

how do I ask out a Taurus woman on a date when your frinds I’m asking because I know they don’t like change I like this girl who’s a Taurus and we’ve been friends for 6 years but I need to know how to ask her out
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2020.11.21 05:32 Throwaway_36363 I need to know if i am in the right

So i have been talking to a girl and we were unofficialy Dateing she was asking my best friend for a picture of him he told me about this and i didn't thank much of it cuz i met her cuz of him so i was like whatever probably nothing now comeing up to a few days ago she said i love you and stuff so i thought everything was fine so yesterday night she invites me to play with her so where siting there and she says in game over text btw "i umm have something to tell you i said what at this point you/i get a gut feeling on what she gonna say and low and behold she says i found someone" while we were unofficialy dateing she said her self that we are unofficialy dateing witch i thought meant we are not really looking for outher people cuz i had a few different girls i liked ask me out and i said im interested in someone and thay like me im sorry and this whole time she was asking other people out so at this point i got in a xbox party with my friend in disbelief on what she just told me so i was mad and sad so i got high and a Littel mad and i joined one of my friends and i am not gonna lie i started crying so i was like fuck this and blocked her on everything even tho she made me promise that if we broke up we could still be friends but i made a promise to myself if she did what my friend were saying she was gonna do even after i defended her then we ain't gonna be friends because i can't trust her so i got sad and was listening to music and told my frind to send her 2 songs witch was all girls are the same and zero by juice wrld and chris brown and he said she was like i aint the same but ok and was like what dos ethat mean to the song zero and my friend doesn't listen to crise brown and said cuz he beats girls im not kidding he sent me a screan shot (any ways was in the right for blocking her or what did i do any thang wrong?)
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2020.11.08 00:27 speedfool How so I ask her out

I ve got a friend for a Bit longer and wanted to ask her Out for a Date but It fells strange I Had the Same Situation a cupple of Times I Just dont want to lose a good frind
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2020.09.17 23:53 PedroMVSilva I truly need help..

Hello, my name is Peter.Frist of all, i do apologize for any bad gramar, english its not my frist language, but i will try my best.
So i meet this girl.Its going to be 3 months in 1th October.Lovely girl, very pretty, very funny, opend minded, caring, loving, just purely amazing, at least she is that to my Eyes.When i meet her, she had a bf.So yeah, didnt think much about that, i didnt have any idea, but yeah, we started talking everyday, playing games together, and talking and talking, she started to open more about her bf, now ex.She said to me, that he was bad for her, didnt make her happy anymore.Didnt take care of her, didnt defend her, didnt stand for her, to defend her for her friends and etc.He basically did his way, or is his way or its not.Basically he started taking things for granted, her for granted.She frist time they broke up, he all the sudden change, was there for here, was caring for her, was doing everything you are supose to do has a bf.. time passed, he did go back to the same.So she finally decide to brake with him for good.So she did, he didnt let her. he didnt stop texting her, but also her didnt do anything to let that stop.He keep texting her, she respondes, even so its just normal stuff.He because felt bad about everything, they book a vacation for 3 days, she went, they sleep in the same room, beds next to each other.They come back, everything happend again, he keep pushing her, stalking her, literally stalking.She fough with him, said enough was enough, said she needed space and he was being a stalker and everything, she feels like she needs to give explanation to him and i am here in the middle of everything.She keeps asking him for space, but she keeps seeing or talking to him.My problem its not them being friends, my problem is that i know what kind of person he is, but i guess she dosent or forgets about him.Today we had a fight.Her ex-mother in low invated her to have dinner, she did go, she did watch a movie with him.I told her what i felt about all of this. But she didnt like. she said she didnt have time for thing anymore for all the fighting. And yes we have been fighting alot because of him, better? She asked me for time, she asked me.. like?Because of that i feel like i am the problem, trying to help her see, how things are, trying to make her life better i think i mad everything wrost for here.. i truly dunno what else we need to do, or if i am seeing stuff, or if she hididng stuff for me.We are from for far away, if i was there everything would be alot better i guess..Also.. Their friends dont help, there was times she was with him, and his friends and they called me, they started to push her around, like telling them why she keeps calling me when she is there with them, and that makes her feel bad, i am like why?You have nothing to feel bad, you didnt do anything wrong, waiting to change and to be happy, there is nothing wrong.Also, if i post something to cliche in the instagram, she gets , well not mad, but worry that their frinds might see it and tell something to him.. and i am like Okay..Why do you care more about what he feels that what i feel ?Because i feel like that, i tell her, tell him what you feel, tell him that you meet me, tell him what is going on, but she dosent tell him that, she dosent, she tells him that we are friends and thats it. But to me tell me, she loves me, she wants me, she wants us to be together. But stuff like this happens... But its to me she gets mad, that just askes me for time not him.Btw their relation was for 4 years, they broke up 2 months, maybe less.Look i do understand stuff like this takes time to heal, takes time to get over it, i am not asking her to date me all the sudden i am not.What i am asking, if for her to stop seeing or talking to him, at least for now, because its never going to feel like a break up, they never going to heal if they dont do that.
Sorry for the long post. sorry for any mistakes.I truly need help
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2020.08.25 17:00 itgoesdown5000 I hate myself and I don't want to die.

I (22W) have always been introvert so I don't really share a lot about myself to anyone. Even as a kid, talking with other people made me very anxious and just uncomfortable. The thing is that I have never have a best friend or even a close friend for that matter. In my almost 22 years of life I haven't trust nobody with everything like 'best friends do'... But once. Once I met a boy my age (14 at the time) and became really close with him cause we both liked pokemon, I used to draw them and he liked. We eventually became best friends and I shared everything with him. When we were 16 he confessed his feelings for me, at the beginning I thought that I loved him too, but I hated kissing, doing "romantic" things with him and the sex part terrified me, which made us break up in the end, but remained good friends anyways. With time he got a girlfriend (at 17), wich was good, he seemed happy and so was I for him, until the girl got mad at me for being his best friend and ruined our plans (we made a plan of traveling across the country to celebrate graduation) by tagging along with us and excluding me of all the things we planned and insulting me every opportunity that she got. All in all I wasn't mad at the fact that she was there with us, if she asked before just tagging along I would have said yes, because until that moment I didn't had a problem with her at all; but the fact that she came uninvited and that my friend didn't tell her nothing at all when she called me a slut, bitch, homewrecker, etc... made me angry. So me and my friend distanced and became an acquaintance more than anything. I felt hollow and alone once again. We both got into different universities so it wasn't so difficult to avoid eachother. On my first year, I met a lot people that became 'friends' for a while or just superficial friends. I didn't share much with them. Later, I got to experiment with people with the same gender and I discovered that I do like doing romantic things with girls and that I fucking love sex. But I kept it in the low cause homophobia is big where I live. In my second year I started talking with my friend again, the girl cheated on him and they broke up shortly after we stopped talking. With time and after a lot of apologies from him, I got close with my friend again to the point were I told him about my 'discovery'. Thing that resulted in me being side looked and dropped as a friend again. It felt even worst the second time. A few months later I (19 at the time) got a girlfriend (23) because I felt lonely and, all in all, I liked her. I was really good at the beginning, it was like a honeymoon state. Until it all collapsed when I came out to my parents and they got really mad, they grounded me, I wasn't allowed to leave the house at all but to go to clases and they confiscated my phone for three months. We stopped talking for a while, but after the three months we got back together, only that that time we were extremely careful and all. With time it got too much for her, since she was independent and, since I was dependent of my parents, it was like a step back for her. So she broke up with me. I didn't make a big deal out of it since I felt she was in her right, but it hurt anyways. Eventually I (20 at the time) started working I made friends with a coworker (20W) that recognised me from class. I didn't told her about me being gay because I was afraid, and I thought that it didn't really mattered since I wasn't planning on dating anyone until I became independent. I liked to spent time with her, we didn't have much similarities but I really liked her way of thinking, so I was happy with my new friend. The thing is that she is really smart and likes to be the first in everything. Everytime I said something 'smart' in class, or a teacher said something nice about me she got jealous and wouldn't talk to me or just be a little mean. I overlooked it because I really wanted a friend. A year later she broke up with her boyfriend and became depressed and anxious. At first it was ok, I listened and gave her advice, the best I could do, then she got in trouble with her parents (they treated her bad because going to therapy is bad looked in here) and lead to her asking about mine. I thought about lying about it but I started crying and told her all the truth, she acted really well and was really supportive of me, wich was great, I even started to share more about myself to her. But then she made it seem like all of my problems are because I'm gay (which in part are but not all of it), and compared to her problems, mine were just superficial and unreal. I tried to make her see that it wasn't the case but it was pointless. So I closed off once again. Anyways I'm still her friend because she is nice most of the time and we still go to uni together and she works well in group works... So I can hold it until I graduate. Out of university life, last year I decided that if I wasn't going to date, at least I would make friends in the lgbtq+ community, so I started to go to gay clubs and meet people. I really liked them at first, they seemed so happy and joyful, but I couldn't keep up with them since I was still more shy and introvert than not. And also, most of them were out and proud (wish is amazing, I wish I could relate) and don't really want to associate with closeted people, which I understand. So, no gay frinds for me then. I tried to make friends by other means, but it seemed like everyone alredy had friends, and a weird lonely girl that turns down every boy, it's not a good match. Now I just have one friend that I don't really like. I feel so bad about it that I started to hate everything. I started to dislike my career choice (I don't know why, I loved it) and I find myself dreading studying at all. I started to hate playing video games, listening to music, watching movies or even playing instruments. Things that I loved because it didn't require to have somebody else, but now I hate them because of it, I feel like they isolate me even more. I don't want to go to therapy because I want to get close to my family again, and if I do, they won't like that. I want to have somebody so bad that I think that I can pretend to be straight, but when I think about lying to somebody about loving them it feels so wrong. I don't know what to do. I just want to enjoy life with somebody, I don't want to die, but I see an option anymore.
Thanks for reading. It means a lot to me.
Ps: I don't know much English. I'm sorry for spelling and redaction mistakes.
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2020.08.24 12:09 RedeemDaydream 2 year old break up haunts my friend

I'm desperate for awnser with no one to talk to.
My friend is torn about his break up with a girl which ended on bad terms 2 years ago, he still complains and argues with me about her to this day, as a friend I try my best to understand and listen to his problems (while having no relationship experience) I do my best. I want whats good for him, but think I'm going mad with this. I'm not experience with reddit but I just need something so im sorry if my wording is off or I do something wrong.
My friend who I'll refer to as Joe has always been a emotional person, however he dosnt really show it to our frind group besides me, I've been the person he could vent to forever now and I didnt mind, however ever since he met this girl in highschool it changed everything. It was a pleasant beginning to a bitter end they met in our high-school and hit it off, however her feelings towards him changed and she started to drif, showing less affection for him. He even took her to our senior prom which she left early making that one oh his "worst nights." She left him for a "more attractive" prrson in which she was rejected and came crawling. But even all that he ignored all her flaws. Would even tell me that he loved her. Right after highschool when they officially started dating lasting 6 months. She broke up with him and blocked joe on everything.
I often asked Joe how he felt about it at first he would he would act happy but then he would have panic attacks and would be more passive aggressive towards our other friends. It would take Joe a year of them being broken up that he was still not over her and its making him depressed. From that point on I tried my best to cheer joe up. We've made new memories and had many great times, but when me and Joe were alone he would always mention her in our conversations to remind me that he's "over her" or "still lives her"and still thinks fondly of their relation ship.
It's been 2 years with no contact with the girl. Joe admitted to me once again that he loves her despite all the terrible things she's done.
Thought other people she found out that he's still hurting for her and wrote text up a note and sent it though a mutual friend apologizing about their relationship and hopes to forget about about it (not addressing past issues)
Joe did not receive the note well saying it raisies more questions than awnsers and now she's all he thinks about again.
I dont know what to do, I don't know what to think. I am angry at him for allowing himself to be consumed by his own sadness I'm angry that he refuses to help himself I'm angry my words don't get through to him I'm angry that he's giving me all this baggage I'm a coward and I'm stupid He "jokes" about suicide and how easy it is I dont know what to say, is he messing with me? Is this a cry for help? If im the only one who can help why dosnt the other 20 girls hes told the same story to help?
Is he a bad person? Am I? Is the girl? Should I call suicide hotline?
This is my 2nd ever post on reddit and its about him again. Because I'm sumped I need other opinions. I need to hear them please. If there is any questions to elaborate more on my or Joe's story please ask.
And again sorry for my ranting or if I made the post too long
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2020.07.23 11:03 DinoKash AITA for not letting my friends to date?

So for some context I only have 2 friends I hangout with outside of work. My one friend (lets call him Derek) and I have be friends for about 8 years, and my other friend (lets call her Hannah) and I have been frinds for about 6 years. I'm young (19) so I dont have a bunch of life experience, so I'm not sure if I'm being and asshole.
So my friends and I where planning on moving in together. But Hannah and Derek had never hungout or even really met. So we had decided that we should hangout to see if they would get along. Way before this happened I had warned Derek, in a kinda joking way, that Hannah was really friendly towards guys so she would probably flirt with him. He had just gotten out of a 3 year relationship so just wanted him to be aware of what might happen.
So we hungout at what I thought would happen did. She started kind of flirting with him (laughing at jokes that weren't funny, putting her head on his shoulder, etc.) So when I was going to get drinks I had her come with me and basically told her to knock it off. She was okay with it and when we got back she switched seats with me.
The next day me and Derek were talking about the hangout and because of what happened I was concerned about us moving in with her because I didn't want them to date, he understood but we ended up deciding that it would be fine and moved on.
A few days later he said that they had been talking and the liked each other but weren't going to do anything because of my concerns and I told him that if they started dating I couldn't hangout or live with either of them.
I've have had friends date before Derek and his first girlfriend and it ended with none of my friend group really talking to his ex when they broke up. I didn't want that to happen and me and Derek are basically brothers so I didn't want to be put in a similar position if him and hannah didn't work out. Anyways AITA?
Edit: I didn't say they couldn't date, its more that I said if they date I wouldn't support it and I wouldnt be hanging out with them while they dated.
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2020.07.17 20:38 STEM-Celibate What do you think about the concept of "friendzone"?

Male friends catching feelings are a common cause of concern among women while the opposite is almost unheard of. I've heard tons of FDS saying that they avoid friendships with men because they fear men will catch feelings for them but I've also heard some FDSers saying that need to know a man well before dating him.
What puts a man in the friendzone? Why men seem to fall in love for their friends much more often than women do? What can a man do to avoid being friendzoned? From what I've understood men need to be upfront but not too fast, where's the line?
I think one of the reasons men end up being "just friends" is that they are simply not attractive to the woman they desire. They only create feelings of Attachment/Comfort around them (like a good friend), without any Attraction, Lust, or Seductive feelings. Sexually attracting a man is very easy hence why men often fall in love with their female friends, sexually attracting a woman is much harder and this probably explains why women are more likely to only feel Attachment/Comfort around their male frinds without the Lust component of love. I'd like to hear your opinion.
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2020.06.18 22:13 nYuri_ does anyone want to discuss Sachi's route in the fruit of grisaia with me?

This is my third route in the game and it was SPECTACULAR
the romance was great I'd go as far a too say it is my favorite romance of any visual novel I have ever played, they have chemistry, of course, and it's not formula for divorce, it made perfect sensewhy they would like each other
the comedy was great even the later half of the game, which is more serious had some pretty great jokes (with sachi turning into an absolute savage who could even mess around with yuuji being a highlight for me)
JB tearing up of happiness was just what I needed to heal my soul after seeing her cry in makina's route
I liked her backstory the most so far, I was expecting something ultra dark like she was a slave before being rescued and ending up in MihamaPrivate Academy so the backstory being a lot more standard was a pleasant surprise and the fact that her life was fairly normal before the accident made the backstory even more tragic
I usaly allways chear for the childhood frinds but the when sachi was reveld to be one I was like:that's a litlle too much, but I endead up coming aroud to the ideia after i realizd that it was actuly important for the plot,the fact that the game was self aware also helped, for exemple when in the scen wher they reveld they are dating, or when they were kids and yuuji was going to say the generic "them 'ill mary you" just to be cut off by sachi sugestion of a random gamen,and them that hapens again at the and of the route wich was goldem

I still can't believe that the sex scene IN A VISUAL NOVEL (in the censored version) was actually: wholesome, important for the story without being cringe, didn't show more that it need to, wasn't a plot device, made sense for the characters, and it didn't appear super earlier, if there are other sex scenes like that in other visual novels I would like to know because that was a first for me
the ending was great
the bad ending was sad but nothing tops michiru's bad ending

the romance was great I'd go as far a too say it is my favorite romance of any visual novel I have ever played, they have chemistry, of course, and it's not formula for divorce, it made perfect sense why they would like each other
the comedy was great even the later half of the game, which is more serious had some pretty great jokes (with sachi turning into an absolute savage who could even mess around with yuuji being a highlight for me)
JB tearing up of happiness was just what I needed to heal my soul after seeing her cry in makina's route
I liked her backstory the most so far, I was expecting something ultra dark like she was a slave before being rescued and ending up in Mihama Private Academy so the backstory being a lot more standard was a pleasant surprise and the fact that her life was fairly normal before the accident made the backstory even more tragic
I usually always cheer for the childhood friends but the when sachi was revealed to be one I was like:that's a little too much, but I ended up coming around to the idea after i realized that it was actually important for the plot, the fact that the game was self-aware also helped, for example when in the scene where they revealed they are dating, or when they were kids and yuuji was going to say the generic "them i'll marry you"just to be cut off by sachi suggestion of a random game, and them that happens again at the end of the route which was golden
I still can't believe that the sex scene IN A VISUAL NOVEL (in the censored version) was actually: wholesome, important for the story without being cringe, didn't show more that it need to, wasn't a plot device, made sense for the characters, and it didn't appear super earlier, if there are other sex scenes like that in other visual novels I would like to know because that was a first for me.
the ending was great
the bad ending was sad but nothing tops michiru's bad ending
I completed the route in only three days because I couldn't stop playing and took a day of before writing this so the hype would die off a litle but I truly think that this route is up there with heaven's feel as one of my favorite route in a visual novel.
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2020.06.04 06:09 fieldaf3 just some advice from a toxic relationship

first of all, i just want to say if your not happy, somethings not right
love is blinding, you see your partner the way you want to see them, you look past the bad things, i did far too much, give an inch and they'd take a mile.
my heads still kinda over the place about everything, also cant write or spell amazingly - if this is a bit jumbled i appologise (ill try to include only relevent information)
so it wasnt a particulally long relationship 2.5 years, first year everything was okay, then into the second she started pushing her weight around, what we did was her choice or we didnt do it, im very active, she wasnt so much, this meant i did 99% of my workouts without her. this is where it gets interesting, before i started dating x i was good friends with another girl, who we used to swim competitively for the same swim squad. nothing ever happened between me and her, we were just friends.
from around the two year mark for the last 6 months, I started putting my foot down and not let myself be pushed around (my family and friends said she wasnt worth it, but i looked around that, thats what you do), thats when arguments started. and we took a break, I spent some time away from home and a few weeks later we tried again, it kinda worked, but I just wasnt happy enough, sure there where good parts, but those parts where overlooked by the bad part, more bad than good.
I was the Idiot that stayed in a toxic relationship, I should have got my stuff together earlier and relised she wasnt for me. either way, she ended it, well i think she did because we almost became friends with b*******. when i realised it wasnt worth trying, thats when i ended up getting my stuff from hers, and just cut her out of my life.
cue the pregnancy card, she wasn't. i lost a lot of friends, mainly ones that we where both close to, bearing in mind im quite introverted so she got me a bad name, and its taken 6 months for her friends to ask me about it, ofc they didnt know about the fake pregnancy, but all of them as soon as i told them, they appologised and said they didnt realise what i was going through
yes i do miss her slightly, i not going to cover it up its normal to miss someone after relationships
i think thats enough about me
heres my advice if you are in a similar relationship
1) if your not happy- talk to each other plan things together
2) dont let anyone walk over you, it may cause more arguments, but its better in the long run, stand up for yourself
3)remebre to always take several points of view about a situation, how will they feel ow will frinds feel, how do you feel
4)always think twice before making a decision your unsure about, especially if its a longer term commitment
i guess thats all i have, appologies for the long post that rambles on, this is the first time ive really written it down- i just want to help others avoid the same situation i was in, very unhappy not sleeping well and in a lot of stress caused by something that can easily be sorted
xx
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2020.05.19 17:08 Talk_you_free Talk Yourself Free

Hey guys!
We are two sociology Students from Vienna who are enjoying to talk about deep and substancial topics. We hold the view that some
problems that we face in life can be solved with a change in attidude towards the problem, wich can be achived by talking freely and without shame
about topics that may concern you. But since makinging yourself vulnerable isn´t alwaways that easy, even withinin a group of close frinds, we
thought that it could be a good idea to provide a safespace where people could talk about their concerns anonymously without having the fear of
being juged. Therefore we created a discord server to give people the opportunity to speak about whats on their mind in an anonymous conversation
where we would be willing to listen to them and also provide our perspectives if wanted.
As our goal is not to make any profits but to help people struggeling with any kind of problems we are not going to charge anything for theese
conversations. We would accept donations if you feel like our chat has helped you in any form but of cours this is not obligatory.
If you feel interested and want to chat with us you can do so by writing us a PN on reddit and schedual a date on doodle. Our server on dicord
will be open for the first time on Sunday (24.05.) from 17:00 - 19:00 (MESZ).
If you feel this could be something for you we would be glad to receave a message from you!
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2020.05.19 16:45 Talk_you_free Talk yourself Free

Hey guys!
We are two sociology Students from Vienna who are enjoying to talk about deep and substancial topics. We hold the view that some
problems that we face in life can be solved with a change in attidude towards the problem, wich can be achived by talking freely and without shame
about topics that may concern you. But since makinging yourself vulnerable isn´t alwaways that easy, even withinin a group of close frinds, we
thought that it could be a good idea to provide a safespace where people could talk about their concerns anonymously without having the fear of
being juged. Therefore we created a discord server to give people the opportunity to speak about whats on their mind in an anonymous conversation
where we would be willing to listen to them and also provide our perspectives if wanted.

As our goal is not to make any profits but to help people struggeling with any kind of problems we are not going to charge anything for theese
conversations. We would accept donations if you feel like our chat has helped you in any form but of cours this is not obligatory.
If you feel interested and want to chat with us you can do so by writing us a PN on reddit and schedual a date on doodle. Our server on dicord
will be open for the first time on Sunday (24.05.) from 17:00 - 19:00 (MESZ).
If you feel this could be something for you we would be glad to receave a message from you!
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2020.03.12 14:38 thedragontamer First ever Copa Libertadores Grenal derby will happen 11h from this post - why you should watch

Tonight at 9pm local time (5pm PST, 8pm EST, 1am CET) Copa Libertadores, South America most important club competition, will host the first ever match between Grêmio and Internacional, Porto Alegre's teams.
Most importantly, tonight's match will be broadcasted by Facebook Watch, so it should be easily accessible.
This thread goes into some depth explaning this rivalry that dates back to 1909, when Internacional was founded. To keep this thread short, it's worth mentioning that Grenal was considered the world's 8th fierciest derby, alongside Barça x Real and neighbours Boca x River.
Both teams have been super offensive this season, albeit with solid defenses. Last Grenal, about a month agora, ended 0-1 for Grêmio, in the state championship. Tonight Inter visits Arena do Grêmio to get revenge and isolate itself as leader of Libertadores group E.
There have been 423 so far, with 156 Inter wins, 134 draws, and 133 Grêmio wins.

Some notable academy products from each club
Inter: Alisson, Alexandre Pato, Falcão, Taffarel, Dunga, Oscar*,Sandro, William, and Iago (these last ones for our bundesliga frinds).

Grêmio: Ronaldinho Gaúcho, Arthur, Scolari*, Anderson, Lucas Leiva.

Players to watch tonight
Grêmio: Éverton, Lucas Silva, Jean Pyerre, Matheus, Kanneman.

Inter: Paolo Guerrero, Boschilia, Andrés D'alessandro. Bruno Fuchs is terrible, nobody should buy him.
Some great grenals to get pumped for tonight
Inter 4-1 Grêmio - 2008

Inter 2-0 Grêmio - 2018 - Great goal at 3:00

Grêmio 5-0 Inter - 2015

Grêmio 2-0 Inter - 2019

Come nightfall, I'll try my best to put together a match thread. See you all there!
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2020.03.07 10:32 KlaraBee95 My best friend (28m) is mad at me (25f) for not abandoning my friendship with his ex gf(21f)

My friend (21f) broke up with my best (or at least very good) friend (28m). I was friends with both of them before they started dating. Then after the break up he tried to get back with her and for maybe 2 months they were back together but then she finally ended it and moved away for college. (Last year october) Afterwards he was really heart broken, upset and got depressed. I tried my best to be there for him and helped him through it and even encouraged him to see a therapist bc it was getting really bad and effected everything.
He sees is therapist sometimes and from what I can tell, the therapist is actually doing a good job. Now his ex-gf came back to visit our town and all her friends. Coincidentally, other friends who had moved away last year also visited on the same weekend. So everyone excitedly met up - except for my best friend bc he was too upset to see her. (I didn't join the meeting either bc I had different appointments but I would've been there otherwise) My best friend then starts complaining, that all the other friends (who are also mostly his friends) all chose to see her. He got mad at us for not stopping being friends with "that witch" (she never cheated on him or anything it was just a regular break up) and said he doesn't want to be frinds with us anymore if we choose to be friends with her.
I told him, it wasn't fair of him to ask us to choose between either of them and that she never hurt any of us. He says he doesn't feel like I get him and basically broke off contact. I tried to send him a message again but he just ignores me rn.

I don't know if I am actually being unreasonable by not wanting to choose? Should I just stop being friends with her? Should I support him more? I realy bothers me that he is mad and doesn't talk to me anymore, we were really good friends and I wish we could talk again.
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2019.12.03 07:54 Black_CatCorn HELP!!

Hi everyone ❣ It will be a month since I started dating again. My current bf (22m) its actually sweet, funny and very caring but.... I have two concerns. 1. Everything was really fast af so I'm concerned he had it easy if that makes sense 2. He was single 3 yrs but because he was in love with his best friend for that long.... I'm concerned about that Anyway any advice you can give me so I can get over my paranoid concerns??? 🤷🏻‍♀️
Edit (4m): They were more like frinds with benefits and she plays dirty... use 'depresion' and 'anxious' as weapon to drag atention, so disgusting 🙄
I was kinda over it but It was when we ran into her, he went to say hi but left me standing there (he never did that before, usually introduces me and goes very excited about it) I was sad, we talked and he even apologise saying he was concious he didn't make it right using the excuse she 'was not important and either have the righ to meet me' but I got paranoic. Thing is I know all the history about them both but he doesn't know that so I don't know how to aproach.
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2019.11.14 20:58 WhyNot2420 I wanna end it all

Hey, in case you are wondering why let's start whit the fact that I am the reason to my cusseins suiside,my dad and sister are abusing me and the brother I did love died in the border and I have to eye witnesses him bleed out I feel like everyone just hates me and even my so called "frindes" I just wanna die that's all I want edit :tonight,tonight's the night the date is November 13 2019 there is no point of living anymore
edit #2: In all honesty my friend took my phone on the bus and I got a glimpse of what he was writing but not enough to know what he was doing we were on a field trip and I didn't have any thought to look at what he did because I trust him. We're still talking...he made it 🙂
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2019.11.13 02:59 JustCartrr My stupid petty friend from middle school

So I had this friend from middleschool, roughly 7th grade who I am giving the fake name of Zack.
When I first met Zack it was because somebody at my table was making fun of his actual name. The dude literally started crying over it so I tell the other kid to lay off of him and Zack thanked me. But we kept talking on our way to lunch and we had a very similar sense of humor. So when i showed him to my two other friends at the time who we will abbreviate to JM and DJ there was an immidiete connection. Since these two also had similar humor we all became friends because humor was our only thing because we were those edgy middleschoolers. Some time later before problems with Zack actually arrive. It began with our middleschoolers zoo trip, specifically, the ride back. There was this girl who I thought more of as a friend who was confessing to me and I thought... "Damn, you know what would be funny, calling myself gay." It got her but luckily for me everyone forgot about it a week later which really relieved me because I thought I had just sealed my fate as the Gay kid despite me being straight. But you know who didn't forget??? Zack, who now had a very deep crush on me. It was brought up when I was playing Garden Warfare 2 by myself. When he asked me out on a date in the xbox party.
First off, the sodd had to ask me out over xbox and not in person, and secondly after calmly explaining to him that the bus thing was a joke. But he was persistant, he said that he was in "Mad love" with me and the way he said it was the most cringy thing. I honestly felt really creeped out so I left the party after telling him off. Though I was audibly angry he kept on persuing. He didnt ask me out but he wasn't even subtly trying to flirt with me. Sitting next to me at lunch. Acting different when I was around. The worst part was I dont think my friends were picking up any signals. Because remember, the only thing that held us together was humor. This went on for a month before he gave up and just around time when fortnite reached season 3 or 4(whenever sandbox came out). My friends immidietly started playing it, DJ in particular became really good at it. But when we played in sandbox Zack would always target me. Of course being the competitive person I am started getting mad. He kept doing it until I killed him and tried my skills against DJ himself. But too many times I was picked out until I actually got into a really heated argument with him. I Unfriended his ass from xbox but later re-friended him because I yet to see him for the manipulative toxic friend he is. Two more fights over videogames until Summer 2018. 7th to 8th grade when Zack was being particularly an asshole and got on me for the slightest things and disregarded my opinions as trash. But in the begining of 8th grade he seemed better! Until my friend JM got a girlfriend (JH), who Zack, had a crush on(guess hes straight now). It was a while before me and JM saw JH for who she was but JM still wanted to help her whoch was really kind. Because Zack was hanging around her and her emo friends he started cutting himself with them. He got over it. After JH dumped JM and got reunited there was a large gray area of major problems. Until JH still hasnt changed and the red flags were still showing. At that point JM broke up with her. But Zack told JM that he should tell JH to go off herself. But JM didnt know what that meant. He thought it meant "Go Away" but in reality Zack had convinced JM to tell JH to kill herself... Luckily she didn't and JM was really mad at Zack. During the middle of 2019 Something arose between my good friend OS and Zack. We were playing minecraft on a new world and over Xbox party OS is telling this very personel story that made us quite suspicious and also kinda jealos. While me and Zack picked at OS to tell us the real story he started to seem angry. I could easilly pick up when to stop so I sayto Zack who is still going to just forget about it. But Zack is still going on about the personal story that OS was brave enough to share to us and is now being ridiculed. I had part in it but I apoligized and brought up some different topics like first dates because it was something that me and OS could relate to but not Zack. Eventually Zack got to OS and this was the part when OS revealed what he overheard over Zack's mic after he left it unmute which I will not be sharing. This made the two really mad at eachother and was the exact time I left the party. Trying to get Zack to apologize was the harder part...I stood up to 3 am and every time id say some kind of mocking word like "Dumb" or "Petty" in a sentence he would immidietly revert back to step 1. Around the last month of school I myself got a girlfriend and this was also the time we all started to get sick of Zack. It broke for me when I found out from my gf that Zack has pushed her many times when they were in PE class and bullied her a lot. After 1 year of boiling up I told him off. But this was bigger than the videogame arguments. This was me cutting ties to a toxic friendship. I refused to talk to him all of Summer 2019. Up until the end of the summer when another frind, ZA, sung the song Heyyah in a vc. This song was tied to one of Zacks personal stories that I won't tell. But this lead him to call me a "megalomaniac"(queue funny sans song) but didnt want to cut ties with me even after saying all those things behind my back. I just said that we could retain as mutual friends. Freshmen year begins and Zack sits right next to me in Math1. You'd think after apoligizing he would change but he didnt. Im making friends and being more open and when I turn to him hes like "Hes annoying" Or "They dont know you, they're just using you" And I cannot take it.
TLDR; Read the fricking story I cant compress it into TLDR format!
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2019.11.06 04:26 KaiorxH Im dating a frind just cuz i dont want to be alone and i like to feel desired

At first it was just that i maked out with my friend while both of us being drunk and high at a party, but the next day he told me that he actually liked me, and i lied and said that i liked him too... its been a few months since then and we are dating and all of our friends know we are dating.
The thing is, i dont like him, i mean, is a good friend but i want just that, and i dont tell him the truth because i dont want to be hated by him and our friends. I know its wrong but i dont know how to end this and i dont know if i want to end it.
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2019.10.10 15:19 jjfc00 Hypothetical...Is it or is it not acceptable to Date your Roommate's Ex-fiance?

Apologies mobile.
So I've been living with my roommate for about 4 years. Prior to living together we were not and still are not the best of friends but we have a livable relationship and mutual respect for each other.
About a 4 months after my roommate and I started living together he started to date one of my female friends whom I had known longer than my roommate. They dated for aproxametly a year or more, and a month before they were to be married she called it off. That was about year ago maybe more.
My roommate and I do the Ozzie and Harriet thing. How was your day, what have you been up to? Out of respect for him when they first split I tried to limit my activities with his Ex. After some time passed we started hanging out again and I mentioned it. He ask if we were dating, and said if so I hope you have better luck than I did. I told him I had never hung out with her with the intention of dating her and felt she didn't find me atractive like that.
She and I have allways just hung out on as friends with similar interests nothing romantic has ever occurred. Its usually in group situations. We have a very good friend relationship which I value greatly. We talk about out lives and have discussed our difficulties with being in our late 30s and dating. I've wondered in the past if we could ever date but for various reasons it never happened. I honestly never thought she looked at me as anything more than a friend.
Lately she has been have a really difficult time with OLD and has said she is going to take a break. Just about every person she has communicated with turns out to be a creep or weirdo in some way, her words not mine. She has also mentioned that some of her other single frinds have seen us together in some of the group pics in my OLD profiles and she described me to them as cool normal guy. Another of our mutual friends, who In my opinion is a nosey Nelly and assumes no one can be single and happy, has asked why I never dated her. My response was that I value her friendship so much that I didn't want to mess it up by trying to date which is truely how I feel. I really do value her friendship.
But now Nosey Nelly has me thinking. We have a good relationship. We are good friends. Isn't your partner also suposed to be your best friend? I do find her atractive. Do I risk makeing this awkward between the two of us and my roommate. I respect my roommate. I know that he has moved on. But I also know that if anything ever happened between her and I would have to find a new place to live.
Let's hear your opinions do I say something or do I say nothing and keep things the way they are.
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2019.10.05 15:13 Throwaway27826715 My (19M) birthday was ruined by my girlfriend (22F)

So we have known eachother for 2 years and been dating for 9 months. We were not very close while we were frinds so birthdays were not something we were involved in.
So yesterday was my birthday. I woke up had a nice time with my mother and sister and then it was 16:00. My girlfriend diddent text me, I assumed she was busy but I saw on Instagram that she posted something and that she was on her xbox a few hours ago. I know she was awake. So I text her asking if she forgot. She said she diddent but she was busy. I told her what I saw and she said "oh I diddent know you were awake" and i mentioned that she saw my story I posted that morning. Them I said it seemed like she diddent realy care then she starter playing the victim. After her saying that she was a horrible person and everyone says she doesn't care and general guilt tripping I let her win the argument.
What is your guys opinion on all of this? Because I've been thinking about what happned and I dont know it it was toxic.
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2019.09.08 03:28 cjawadz I (32M) am stuck in my Girlfriend’s(30F) romantic past

We have been together for almost a year now and I absolutely love this girl. She is amazing, pretty, driven, educated and brings a lot of joy and care to this relationship.
Very recently she has moved to a regional area for a 6 months secondment and we will not be seeing each other very frequently and I do miss her.
Only recently what has started happening is that I am contemplating a lot about her past. When we started dating she mentioned she was in a two years relationship during uni(when she was 20). She was very devoted and invested and she did a lot of things for her bf back then including helping him with finances etc.Then the guy broke up with her out of blue and that was a very tough time for her.
Then she saw an old school friend for a bit but that never went anywhere. She said he was her primary school crush but he wasnt looking for a relationship.They still are frinds and she met him after asking me for my permission when he was in town recently.
Finally, she dated a guy from work for 2 months and that also didnt work. So before meeting me, she had been in 3 relationships out of which she says only one was a 2 yrs long term and rest had no meaning for her and they didnt last long time.
She also said she was a very shy person before her first relationship and kissing someone was a big thing for her. She is very confident in intimacy now.
With all these things in mind, I have been overthinking about her past romantic relationships and things which could have changed her. I stress a lot and I feel kind of jealous that she had been in situations and if she lowered her self esteem to agree to date them guys. What were their intentions? Did they use her? Weird sexual thoughts and all that making me feel very uncomfortable and stressed.
I did discuss with her about all this. She said she never felt the same about anyone like she feels for me right now. She said she would rather had met me in early days and none of these things would have been there. She also said she was very fortunate that everyone was nice to her and she had no bad experiences at all in any of those situations.
I am struggling to cop with feeling to do with intimacy. Her confidence also is intimidating in this perspective.
I like her a lot and stuck in past as to why didnt I meet her before and how could I get rid of all these things in between? I know it is retrospective jealousy. I am trying to overcome these feelings without making her and our relationship suffer but struggling.
TL;DR I am always stuck and thinking way too much about my girlfriends past intimate relationships
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